How can I not become a burden on my friends and family?

Pacing

The caregiving needs will vary depending on the ups and downs of your child’s illness and treatments. You will quickly learn to enjoy the good times and resume “normal” life. When times are not as good, you have to do what you can to protect your stamina to be there for your child. Do not be afraid to ask for help – many people in your life are wringing their hands wondering what they can do. Tell them what they can do. Let them bring meals, run errands, or walk the dog. Let them take your other kids for an afternoon or overnight. Let them sit with your sick child while you sleep.